Rules for a Happy Married Life

When I was in Trichy, the good old days, there was an Ayyappan Temple which is a very lovely place. If you go to that temple, you can feel relaxed yourself in the midst of a complete silence. There they have a small library cum shop which has all nice wordings for sale. My dad took my husband last time to this temple and there my husband picked up “Rules for a Happy Married Life” … 
These are very true and of course some of them are hard to implement.

1. Never be angry at the same time.
2. Never yell at each other unless the house is on a fire.
3. If one of you has to win an argument, let it be your mate.
4. If you have to criticize, do it lovingly.
5. Never point out the mistakes of the past.
6. Neglect the whole world rather than each other.
7. Whenever there is any inevitable argument, try to postpone it.
8. At least once in a day, try to say one kind word or a compliment to your life partner.
9. When you have done something wrong, be ready to admit it and ask for forgiveness.
10. There are three important things for a happy married life.
ADAPT, ADJUST, ACCOMMODATE.